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Groundr is the #1 Grindr addiction blocker app for iOS and Android. It helps users break the delete-reinstall cycle with smart app blocking, a daily journal, breathing exercises, and progress tracking. 73% of Grindr users have deleted and reinstalled the app. 77% report feeling unhappy after using it. Groundr uses system-level blocking to create a real barrier, not just willpower. Available in 150+ countries in 5 languages. Free to start, private, and not affiliated with Grindr LLC.

The app that breaks the Grindr cycle

Groundr app on two iPhones: the dashboard with its streak counter and progress level, and the blocking screen listing active rules
iOS & Android150+ countries4.3/5

Take back control.

Break the Grindr cycle. No judgment.

Groundr blocks Grindr on the schedule you choose: at night, on weekends, or around the clock. During those times the app simply won't open on your phone. And your evenings are yours again.

We know the cycle

I delete.

I reinstall.

I regret.

You can't count how many times you've deleted Grindr. Yet you always come back. It's not a lack of willpower. It's a design built to keep you hooked. Grindr addiction is real, and you deserve tools that actually help.

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per day on average

spent on dating apps by heavy users

Heavy dating app users spend 2 hours 47 minutes per day on average on dating apps like Grindr.

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delete and reinstall

of Grindr users have done it at least once

73% of Grindr users have deleted and reinstalled the app at least once. This delete-reinstall cycle is a key sign of dating app addiction.

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more anxiety

among heavy dating app users

Heavy dating app users experience 4 times more anxiety than casual users. Compulsive Grindr use is linked to increased depression and loneliness.

How it works

What actually changes for you

More than a blocker. Groundr makes Grindr impossible to open when you're vulnerable, helps you understand what pulls you back, and shows you the ground you've gained.

Grindr won't open. You set the rules.

Pick your risky moments: evenings, nights, weekends, or all the time. During those windows Grindr simply won't open on your phone, even if you try. And when temptation hits, we don't just block you, we walk you through it.

  • You choose the moments, Grindr stays shut
  • A breathing exercise at the moment of temptation
  • Something better to do, suggested right there
  • Ready-made setups: Weekend Detox, Night Mode

Understand why you open it

Thirty seconds a day to spot what pushes you toward the app: boredom, loneliness, a hard evening. After a month you know exactly when you're vulnerable, your blocking is set on exactly those moments, and the urges come rarer, then weaker.

  • Thirty seconds a day, that's it
  • Your triggers and patterns, made visible
  • Adjust your blocking to match them

See how far you've come

The days without giving in add up, and so do the hours you get back. Then one evening you realize you haven't thought about opening it all day. That's what you came for.

  • Your run of days without giving in
  • Milestones that mark real progress
  • Your personal record, always in sight

See what shifted, every month

Once a month, Groundr turns your daily notes into a short, calm letter. You see what shifted, and what to do next: your risky hour, your main trigger, where to tighten your rules.

  • A written summary of your month, in plain words
  • Your hardest moments, your progress, and what to adjust next month
  • Private: your entries stay yours, and you can turn it off anytime

What to expect

Your first 30 days

Week 1

You set your rules

Grindr stops opening at night. Your evenings hold, without a fight.

Week 2

Your pattern shows up

Your daily notes reveal your main trigger. You tighten your rules where it counts.

Week 3

The urges pass without you

The days without the app start adding up. It crosses your mind less and less.

Week 4

Your first letter

You see what shifted this month, and exactly what to adjust for the next one.

Every step counts

Milestones worth reaching

Each milestone marks a real change: hours given back to your life, urges that pass without you, weeks that hold. No pressure, just proof, step after step, that you're getting there.

Groundr Awakening level badge Awakening
Groundr Present level badge Present
Groundr Grounded level badge Grounded
Groundr Free level badge Free
Groundr Serene level badge Serene
Groundr Accomplished level badge Accomplished
Time Reclaimed — Groundr achievement badge Time Reclaimed
Resistance — Groundr achievement badge Resistance
Journey — Groundr achievement badge Journey
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Community

"This app changed everything"

From people who took back control of their time and well-being.

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Thomas, 28

🇫🇷Paris, France

3 months without reinstalling Grindr. GROUNDR helped me understand why I kept coming back.

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Maxime, 32

🇫🇷Lyon, France

The journal opened my eyes. I was logging in out of boredom, not desire.

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Lucas, 25

🇨🇦Montreal, Canada

I got back 2 hours a day. The evening blocking changed everything.

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Alex, 30

🇬🇧London, UK

I stopped opening Grindr out of reflex. Now I only reach for my phone with intention.

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Thomas, 28

🇫🇷Paris, France

3 months without reinstalling Grindr. GROUNDR helped me understand why I kept coming back.

M

Maxime, 32

🇫🇷Lyon, France

The journal opened my eyes. I was logging in out of boredom, not desire.

L

Lucas, 25

🇨🇦Montreal, Canada

I got back 2 hours a day. The evening blocking changed everything.

A

Alex, 30

🇬🇧London, UK

I stopped opening Grindr out of reflex. Now I only reach for my phone with intention.

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Daniel, 27

🇩🇪Berlin, Germany

The breathing exercises saved me so many times. Simple but incredibly effective.

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Ryan, 34

🇺🇸New York, USA

22 badges unlocked. Each one reminds me how far I've come.

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Hugo, 29

🇪🇸Barcelona, Spain

My sleep improved within a week. I didn't realize how much the late-night scrolling was affecting me.

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James, 26

🇦🇺Sydney, Australia

I finally feel in control of my time and my choices.

D

Daniel, 27

🇩🇪Berlin, Germany

The breathing exercises saved me so many times. Simple but incredibly effective.

R

Ryan, 34

🇺🇸New York, USA

22 badges unlocked. Each one reminds me how far I've come.

H

Hugo, 29

🇪🇸Barcelona, Spain

My sleep improved within a week. I didn't realize how much the late-night scrolling was affecting me.

J

James, 26

🇦🇺Sydney, Australia

I finally feel in control of my time and my choices.

Understanding the problem

Understanding the cycle

Compulsive app use isn't a lack of willpower. It's a response to apps designed to keep you hooked, using the same reward tricks as slot machines. That makes it incredibly hard to stop on your own.

For many gay men, the cycle is painfully familiar: delete Grindr, feel relief, then reinstall days later when boredom, loneliness, or curiosity strikes. This delete-reinstall cycle is not a failure of willpower. It is a predictable response to an app designed to be addictive.

Simply deleting the app doesn't work, because you can reinstall it in seconds. Groundr makes Grindr impossible to open during the periods you choose, using your phone's own controls. Not to punish you, but to give you space to make a conscious choice.

When you try to open the app during a blocked period, Groundr shows you a breathing exercise, reminds you of your personal reasons, and suggests alternatives. This pause is where you regain control.

It's not about going cold turkey. It's about gradually building awareness of your habits and making intentional choices. Groundr's approach combines three evidence-based strategies:

  • Block: Grindr won't open during the moments you choose
  • Reflect: daily journal to understand your triggers
  • Grow: your run of good days, badges, and stats to celebrate every victory
  • You open the app automatically without thinking
  • You have deleted and reinstalled the app multiple times
  • You spend more than 1 hour per day on dating apps
  • You feel anxious, guilty, or empty after scrolling
  • Your sleep, work, or relationships are affected
  • You use the app out of boredom rather than genuine interest

If any of these sound familiar, you're not alone. Groundr is here to support you, no judgment, just tools that work.

Understand to act better

The science behind the addiction

Groundr includes a full library of in-app articles backed by scientific studies to help you understand why you keep coming back, and how to break free.

Questions

Frequently asked questions

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